My 12 year old son has been through so much pain this last year. His grandmother commited suicide last September, his dad died in March, and the Dr.s found a large tumer in my brain. I have had major surgery and 6 weeks of radiation and am happy to say Im a survior. This Christmas I cant afford to get Christmas presents because I am disabled and still paying off funeral bills from my husband. My son is very smart and came to me the other day. He told me not to worry because having me was all he needed this Christmas. I agree with that! Being here with him is my gift. He is always thinking of everyone else. I would love to get him presents but when it comes down to it what matters is our family. Hold them close,make up with them if your not getting along. There isn't anything more important than loving and being loved. God has blessed us in this saddness. Remember it could always be worse, what you think is important may not be, and what you think is unimportant may be the most important. Live everyday like its your last. God will provide for us in some way I just know it. Happy Holidays!!!